- Karen Ingalls
- Ovarian cancer will be diagnosed in 1 of 72 women; 14,000 will die. Please know the symptoms and risk factors: read Outshine: An Ovarian Cancer Memoir. Books at www.amazon.com. ALL PROCEEDS GO TO GYNECOLOGIC CANCER RESEARCH. I am a member of Rave Reviews Book Club and Rave Writer's International Society of Authors, and Patient Leadership Council for Tesaro, Inc. I WILL NOT USE YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS FOR ANY OTHER PURPOSE THAN CONTACTING YOU DIRECTLY. ALL ORIGINAL CONTENT COPYRIGHT 2011 THROUGH 2018.
Friday, September 21, 2012
Planting Seeds of Life
This morning I planted a croton in a large pot, sat it on the plant stand, and decided that this colorful plant would be a welcome sight at our front door. I then went to my various plants scattered around the front and back yards; pulled some weeds; dead-headed the marigolds; cut back the impatients; then fed them all some fertilizer and water.
Robert Louis Stevenson said, "Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant." I believe it also could be said, "Don't judge your life by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant." How am I living each day? Am I interacting with love in my heart? Have I been forgiving? Do I offer a helping hand?
Recently three of us were talking about our lives and the question came up, "What would you do over differently if you could?" One friend said, "There is not one thing in my life I would change," while two of us said there were some things we would do differently. We cannot go back and change the past; we can only live in the present. One important lesson I learned as a teenager was that I must plant the seeds of love, kindness, and generosity now. My favorite Bible verse then and now is: "I must work of Him while it is light, for the night cometh when no man can work." (John 9:4)
In my book Outshine: An Ovarian Cancer Memoir, I share how this lesson was reinforced. Bad, tough, or tragic things can still happen. They are the weeds of our lives. But if we live in the Light, the flowers of goodness and love will grow.