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Wednesday, October 19, 2016


              In the daily, weekly, or longer challenges of life...
                                are they as big as a fruit fly?

Do you fret and get angry over any of these events?
              **A slow driver
              **Someone who budges in front of you in traffic
              **A long line at the store
              **Television commercials
              **Computers answering your phone calls
              **Or any other myriad of daily events that frustrate you.

Do you clench your jaw, tighten your hands, raise your voice, increase your blood pressure?

Well, my husband and I have had an epiphany and we laugh and say, "Is this as big as a fruit fly?"

A few weeks ago we had a lot of fruit flies due to fruit left out of the refrigerator. They were a nuisance, but not as much of a problem as when Hurricane Matthew was threatening our home, when my husband had three surgeries in a two month time, when I was rediagnosed with ovarian cancer, when unexpected medical bills came due, or other more important issues than fruit flies! We did eliminate the fruit flies and now keep our fruit in the refrigerator.
We survived Matthew, my husband is recovering well, I am being treated with chemotherapy, and the bills are getting paid!

I want to introduce you to a remarkable woman who has not let the "fruit flies" of her life rule her. She has faced some unbelievable challenges with strength and faith. Her name is Gwen Plano, an author extraordinaire. 

I encourage and invite you to read her book, Letting Go Into Perfect Love. 
Visit Gwen at her web site: http://www.gwenplano.com/

        Life is not about the small things, like fruit flies!


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  2. Thank you for this incredible reminder, Karen. Life is all about perspective. God bless you.

  3. Thank you, Beem. It is so easy to let the "fruit flies" of life rule us.